STUDENTS’ CORNER
by Insoo Kim
Berg
Background
Information
I am frequently asked by some of you to assist in
writing your papers on Solution-Focused Therapy (SFBT) because you have chosen
to concentrate on some aspects of this exciting new model that you have recently
been exposed to. There are some of you who fortunately find me in office and I
can frequently assist some of you. But there are other unfortunate ones that I
cannot assist because I am often absent from my office for a stretch of time,
mostly days but other times, for weeks at a time. In recent years, such
requests seem to be on the increase. Therefore, I decided to make things easier
for you and for myself by posting some commonly asked questions here. I will
also offer some suggestions to those of you who want to present a small segment
of SFBT model to your classes or your colleagues at work on how to distill the
most important aspect of SFBT. We all are very busy nowadays and I hope this
will save you and myself some precious time, while accomplishing what you
decided to do.
“What led you to develop SFBT?”
I was born and educated in Korea during it’s most
turbulent period in recent history. Initially I began my college education in
pharmacy in Korea and I came to U. S. with the intention of doing a graduate
work in pharmacology and/or study of hormones. One thing led to another and
shifted from natural science to studying, practicing clinical practice of
psychotherapy in late ‘60's and early ‘70's. In those days, even behavioral
therapy was just gaining some recognition but with skeptical eyes and of course
the psychoanalytic view of man was the only predominant model. Wanting to be a
good learner, I even put myself on the couch three times a week, for three
years. Of course my work with clients was assumed to take a long time and I
expected to settle into a long-term relationship with clients who were mostly
women, occasionally couples, and some children.
I began to notice myself talking about my failures a
great deal in supervision and consultation sessions, usually in the form of my
own “counter-transference” issues, that is, somehow it seemed like I was always
making mistakes. Even though I was not accustomed to making so many mistakes, I
studied diligently, driven by a desire to be a good therapist. There were
several things that I observed that forced me to question myself and the
approach I was learning.
Remember that it normally took six (6) sessions just
to complete the psycho-social assessment and treatment plans in those days, with
lengthy history that went back to several generations. One of the most
disconcerting experience was that clients would drop out of treatment even
before I completed the assessment. Of course it was believed that without
assessment, treatment cannot begin and it seemed as if I were always discussing
my failures with my supervisor which is a really uncomfortable situation.
Then I began to notice something. Those cases that I
was pretty convinced that I had failed with, because they “prematurely dropped
out” by not showing up or canceling appointments, would refer their best
friends, relatives or family members to me personally. Something didn’t quite
fit together. They must have thought that I was helpful to them in some way!
How could I have possibly helped them when they dropped out of treatment even
before we began! I began to doubt myself, the clients, and the theoretical frame
I was learning.
[The next event had a very profound effect on my
professional path.] In early ‘70's I participated in a study and, of course,
being the novice therapist meant I had to do some grunt work in the agency.
This was a study with an interesting design that was conducted at various sites:
The researchers selected an arbitrary date, say, April 18th as a target date,
and all new intakes conducted on this date was followed-up by an in-person
interview about their experience. One of the questions that was asked was how
many sessions they came before termination and whether they met their goals.
One of my tasks was to do the follow-up interviews of all the cases opened on
April 18th (at the agency I worked in). It took almost a year to collect the
data across the country and then the results came out. Of course, having
participated in the study, I was quite curious about the outcome. The results
shocked me to my core.
It showed that 90% of all clients across the country
came fewer than 20 sessions! I was struck by the implication of this that
perhaps others did not see, or did not cared about. It seemed to explain my
nagging sense of chronic failure: I was using a model that was useful to only
10% of the population! It means that 90% of the clients came fewer than 20
sessions. The study further showed that 80% of the intakes conducted on April
18th came 7 sessions or less! There has to be a better fit between what clients
want and need and how therapists conceptualize the helping process.
It led me to search for a sensible model that applied
to my clients who wanted to solve problems right away, not next month or next
year. Overwhelmed with life, they were looking for ways to reduce their
frustrations and to get along with each other and wanted their lives to be a
little more satisfying. Reasonable things to ask for, I thought. My clients
seemed hard working, basically decent people who told like it was without
beating around the bush. But I realized that I did not know how to be helpful
and useful to them in a practical, efficient manner. My search led me to the
meager literature on brief therapy and was I surprised to discover that there
were some studies coming out of child guidance movement that pointed toward
working with the families of difficult and disturbed children. Family therapy
was just coming to maturity and there was lots of energy and innovation. I
terminated my own analysis prematurely (against the advice of my analyst) and
commuted to Chicago to attend postgraduate training in Family Therapy.
The training turned out to be a psychoanalytically
oriented family therapy. One of the criteria for graduation was to keep a
family in treatment for a year! I barely managed to meet the criteria of
success, barely keeping a family in treatment for a year. This led me to Palo
Alto, where the Mental Research Institute is located. The Brief Therapy model
developed by Watzlawick, Weakland, Fisch at their Brief Therapy Center seemed to
make sense and I was very drawn to it because of its pragmatic approach.
Beginning of the BFTC Team
When Steve de Shazer joined the team in Milwaukee,
the informal, loosely formed team became energized and we began to talk about
our dream of establishing “the MRI of the Midwest” and the team of five set out
to study the most effective, efficient ways to help clients. We experimented
with a variety of approaches and argued a great deal about what made sense to
us. The team also struggled with many, many issues that we never thought
existed but somehow we were determined to make it. We opened our own offices in
1978 with a small bank loan, using our modest house as a collateral and our
office was equipped with a one-way mirror, a telephone hookup between therapy
and observation rooms, a videotape recorder, and a team of observers. We
deliberately selected the team members with diversity in mind, personal
background and academic disciplines which included, philosophers, educators,
sociologists, physicians, linguists, even engineers, along with usual mental
health professionals. We called our training and research group: Brief Family
Therapy Center.
How did the ideas of Solution-Focused Brief Therapy begin to emerge?
The first discovery we made were “exceptions” to
problems — somewhere in the very early ‘80's. We were shocked to discover that
there were times in clients’ troubled lives, when the problem was either a
little less severe or absent. This discovery led us to observe carefully and
eventually we learned when the clients repeated exceptions to problems, this
would eventually lead either to the problem disappearing or the client
redefining what was a problem, IE., the problem is no longer a problem for
them.
Along the way came the Miracle Question in 1984 when
we discovered that clients can have, with help from the therapist, a clear sense
of how they want their life to be different. When this vision is very
realistic, achievable, concrete, measurable, is important to the client, the
therapy moves rather rapidly. We also learned over the years that the way we
phrase the Miracle Question made a difference in shaping the answer.
Next came scaling questions, which are described as a
self-accessed assessment tool, that is, clients assess their own situations in
terms of progress, seriousness, determination, hopefulness, and all of these can
form the basis for a discussion by using a 0 - 10 scale.
In order to generate money to pay rent, telephone,
electricity, and assistance in office, we began to offer training opportunities
from the beginning of BFTC in 1978. We believe this activity of trying to
explain to someone what we were doing was a tremendously important element in
our development. As someone says, “studying results in learning; teaching
results in knowing.” In order to teach, we had to know and as we knew, we
learned more. Also through the publication of our work (starting with Steve de
Shazer’s Patterns of Brief Family Therapy, Guilford Press, 1981) we got lots of
feedback on what and how we were doing.
The model, which began as a clinical model in an
outpatient setting, has since been adapted and applied to numerous settings with
a variety of populations and problems: drug and alcohol abuse, domestic
violence, school problems, chronic mentally illness, case management, and child
protection investigations, corrections, criminal justice, prison population,
social services, residential treatment programs. This model is practiced around
the world (Berg & Dolan, Norton, ‘00) now and has a wide appeal among
practitioners because of its simple, practical, infinitely respectful approach
to working with people.
What is unique about SFBT?
Developed from an inductive process and often
described as coming from a “different paradigm,” SFBT differs from
problem-solving approaches in its philosophy and techniques. We believe that
the “problem-solving” paradigm which is commonly accepted in most treatment
models can be described as a medical model. Contrasted with this, SFBT can be
described as solution-building approach. These two activities are distinctively
different and have tremendous implications for clinical practice. (DeJong &
Berg, Interviewing for Solutions, Brooks/Cole, 1998).
What separates SFBT is the premise that the future is
created and negotiated, and not a slave of the past events in a person’s life,
therefore, in spite of past traumatic events, a person can negotiate and
implement many useful steps that are likely to lead him/her to a more satisfying
life. The second assumption is that the client has all the resources, skills,
and knowledge to make their life better, if they decide that this is good for
them and that s/he wants things to be better for him/her. Small change can lead
to making a big difference in the future. There are many more assumptions that
drive the model and variety of techniques that express these assumptions. (See
DeJong & Berg (1998), de Shazer (1995), Berg (1994), and many
others.
Described as minimalist and as fitting within social
constructionism, SFBT pays a great deal of attention to language as the primary
tool we have and how language shapes what kind of conversation a therapist will
have with his/her client. It is rooted in the belief that language shapes and
molds the perception of reality and therefore, some conversations are more
useful than others. That is conversations are useful in shaping and
determining what kind of life the client wants, what the client knows how to do
toward getting their desired outcome, and helping the client find ways to do
it.
What and How to present the key concepts of SFBT in limited time I have for class presentation?
There are a number of topics you can select to
present. Common questions students raise are: How do you work with handicapped
children using this model? Does this model work with drug addicts and
alcoholics? What about sexually abused children? How about working with
couples? What about jealousy? Depression? Chronic and persistent mentally
illness? Domestic violence offenders? You get the picture.
These kinds of questions come from a traditional medical model that assumes that each problem category has its own unique and separate treatment approaches, that is, solutions must match the problem. Thus, it is commonly believed that finer diagnosis and assessment will lead to a better selection of solutions that will match the problem. DeJong & Berg (1998, Brooks/Cole) describes this as a “problem-solving” paradigm. SFBT assumes that “building solutions” is more effective and respectful of what the client brings to the relationship. Thus building on this client’s existing strengths and resources to find solutions (past and current successes, however small and seem irrelevant) and efficient way to collaborate with clients.
How do I present this model to my class?
Obviously you want to select the most prominent
feature of the model and I suggest the following ideas and techniques.
Experiential Exercise
I:
1. Ask the class to form into a dyads. One of the
dyads will play the most difficult client they heard about or they had actually
encountered in recent times. The other person is the counselor, therapist, or
social worker trying to interview the client with lots of problems in their
usual approach. Ask the dyad to carry on a normal interview for 5 - 10
minutes. Ask them to stop. No discussion or debriefing.
2. This time, the same pair, same client, and same
problem. Ask the student who played the client to turn his/her back toward the
writing board so that the client cannot see the questions the practitioner is
asking. The questions are only visible to the practitioner.
Then the counselor/worker asks the following questions you posted
on the writing board or on overhead. The dyad spends 5-10 minutes.
Solution-Building
Questions
1. Tell me about the times when this problem is a
little bit better?
2. Tell me about the most times when this
happened?
3. How did you make this happen? What else?
4. What are you doing differently during those
times when things are a little bit better?
5. What would your best friend (mother, child, etc)
tell you when things are going a little bit better for you?
6. Ask the group to stop. Now ask those who played
the client to describe their experiences. What were the differences between
the two conversations. Which went better for the client? Which felt more
cooperative? Which would you prefer as a client? What would the group say were
the differences between the two interviews? Which conversation was more
empowering? If you were a client which conversation would you prefer? Then ask
the interviewer the same questions. Which felt better? Which felt
collaborative? How was your reaction to your client different in the two
dialogues?
7. Summarize the differences you have heard from the
group and point out that the later questions were from SFBT and it is an example
of how different interviewing can be. You have just described and demonstrated
exceptions to problems. The entire exercise can take 20 - 30 minutes.
8. The first conversation usually comes from the
expert position of a practitioner who must “assess” the client who has this or
that kind of problem. Which way would you like to practice?
Exceptions to Problem:
The above exercise not only points out the
differences between two paradigms but also the basic assumptions we make about
the people we work with. Listening for exceptions takes lots of training
because in everyday life, we tend to pay more attention to problems than to
solutions or small successes. SFBT contends that all problems have exceptions,
that is, a person could have lost his/her temper but somehow managed to do it
slower, less intensely, or even decided to walk out of the house and not yell at
the child. I met a mother who explained that she locked herself in the bathroom
so that she could control herself enough not to slap her child as she normally
does! What an amazing desire and ability to control herself from doing harm to
her child? When we ask for details about such creative ways to change her
behavior, the client becomes amazed at her own ability to control her temper.
Also. her desire to be a good parent becomes more vivid to her. The next step
is to repeat this small success.
Scaling Questions as a Self-Assessment Tool
On a scale of 1 to 10, where 1 stands for how badly
you felt when you first decided to come and talk to me today and 10 stands for
how you will feel like you don’t need to come to see me anymore, where would you
say you are at right now?
How did you manage to get all the way up to 2? That’s 100% improvement from the day you called. How did you do it?
What would it take you to move up 1 point higher?
When you move up 1 point higher, what would your best friend (mother, boyfriend, etc) notice that will tell him/her that you are doing a little bit better?
You can use scaling questions to ask about a variety
of issues and concerns such as: safety issues, how hopeful, how determined,
confidence, desire, sadness, proud, and host of other topics that will help the
client to decide his/her own appraisal of situations.
Coping Questions:
You have been through a lot the last couple of
month. How in the world have you coped with so much, while going to school
(holding down your job, taking care of the children, getting up in the morning,
etc. that the client is actually doing)?
What do you suppose your best friends (family, daughter, co-workers, etc.) would say how you’ve been doing it?
How did you know that “keeping low” was the best way to cope with such a “terribly oppressive” situation you were in? What did you know about your job that told you that it was the best policy to keep your job until you saved enough money?
When you are so depressed, like you are describing, how do you manage to keep doing all these things you’ve been doing? It is amazing.
The above questions and variations on the above
questions convey to your client that you are “admiring” your client while
commiserating at the same time at the persistence and strength he/she shows by
keep “hanging in there” in spite of what he/she considers to be an overwhelming
task. By answering these and other similar strength discovering questions, the
client him/herself explains their strong motivation, determination, and will to
“make it.”
Miracle Question
This question requires the biggest departure for most
clinicians trained in traditional therapy models because it sounds
“nonscientific” and they are afraid the may sound foolish to the client by
asking such question. However, this question has been used thousands and
thousands times all over the world, and experienced clinicians believe this is
one of the most useful questions because it helps the client paint a detailed
picture of his/her desirable state of life - thus describing their goal for the
contact or their view of what will make their life a little bit better off.
There are numerous descriptions of this question and it’s application in every
conceivable human interaction that I will not go into the details of this useful
question, but suffice it to say that these questions have been used in all sort
of settings and variety of clinical and non-clinical population.
Conclusion
I hope this bulletin titled For Students Only is
useful to you. This information is designed to be a supplement to your reading
and also the classroom lectures from your professors and instructors.